Perhaps, we are here to love
Spent the morning visiting a few elderly. Had a great chat with them on a beautiful Sunday morning.
They taught me a precious lesson on love today.
The first was an elderly couple, the uncle was in his 90s and the
auntie was in her late 80s. The uncle has visual and mobility
difficulties, and when the uncle was chatting with us, the auntie who
has auditory difficulties, was there smiling.
Both of them were
really positive when they talked about how because of uncle's mobility
difficulties, they are unable to go far, and they were smiling when they
talked about being each others' support, and how they are satisfied
with their lives in the company of their loved ones.
The second
was an elder in his 90s. The elder had mobility difficulties but was
jovial and kind. He told me his life story, and the part which struck me
was when he spoke about his wife, his eyes sparkled with love. He told
me how his wife insisted on marrying him during the 1950s despite him
telling her that he was engaged through a marriage proposal made by his
parents in Taiwan. He choose to marry his wife and decided to call off
his proposed marriage in Taiwan despite the possibility of incurring the
displeasure of his parents.
He laughed when he mentioned that his wife loved him a lot.
I was touched.
Sometimes, life is really simple. Perhaps, the objective of life is
to love; the only difference lies in the person of our affection.
It may be ourselves, our families, loved ones, or the world.
I am grateful for the opportunity to witness and listen to the elders
share on their love. Sometimes, it is unspoken, seen through the actions
which speaks the language of love. May they continue to love and be
loved.
Maybe, just maybe we are all here to love.
May all be well and happy.
With loving-kindness
Simple Bear 20.03.2016.